Marriage or Manage - secret sauce for success

Since my childhood i grew up with observing marriages around me. Some of them were amicable, some were hostile, friendly , affectionate . I never seen any marriage for convenience unless i grew older and saw the society from an adult eyes. But definitely marriage is one of the oldest institution across the globe and basis of the human society. It teaches all kind of management. Starting from human resource, financial, resources, process optimization and i can go on and on this list 😂 . Marriage, family , kids , kids grow up and cycle repeats . But over the period of time i observed that peaceful marriages or the successful marriages are which comes with lots of managing . Like the earlier we will come to know the strength, weakness of a person as they grow old and shift our preferences accordingly that is a key of success. It is same as any work place environment when we join, work and establish ourselves within the team , company and grow in that place. Changing the job sometimes reset the growth path  🤣🤣. 

One person in the spouse take a lots of ownership and work but that does not mean that same person is providing the direction of the work or part of the deciding committee. But more less one person will provide their opinion the more success or peaceful the relationship will be. Over the period of time sometime the wives gives up , sometimes the husbands but one person definitely gives up to maintain the harmony. You may be wondering that what i am trying to say here? I am not trying to say anything new , just trying to pen my observation and experience. There is a famous saying - "Behind every successful man, there is a strong woman" but i cant find the similar saying for any marriage 😅😅. So the people who can manage well have a better and peaceful marriage. 

But is love is also necessary on this peaceful co existence ? May be , but not a mandatory or may be mandatory? But with this time of fast moving world who has time for love? specially when we reach the mid - life by then the daily conversation also become difficult . But that is not a success ( even in peaceful co existence) , all the successful  and intelligent people will  make sure to spend time with their spouses. But many wont. Because their mind is pre-occupied, some of them don't find a topic to strike a conversation. These are the facts i can go on increasing the counts but that wont add any value. Many of us might grew up seeing that parents's conversation is limited to exchanging grocery list but that is not a way things should work. Now its our turn to give a better example to give our next generation the secret sauce of success.